🖥️ Computer Engineer from Santa Barbara, CA, specializing in Microsoft PowerAutomate, PowerApps, PowerBI.
📚 An avid reader of self-empowerment & business books. Recent favorites:
- The Way of the Superior Man
- Not Nice
- The One Thing.
🏡 Real Estate Investor ~ CoLiving.
🍞 Together with Harris, we lead multiple in-person groups, including:
- Toastmasters (Public Speaking)
- Tri-County Real Estate Investors Association
🏋️ Also, a men's rapid weight loss coach. I have been doing Keto for 9+ years.
📽️ Daily YouTuber
🧇 Waffle Master
🔬 My hugely audacious goal in life is to create a multi-generational foundation in my mother's name, the Regina Jorge Santana Breast Cancer Research Foundation.
Join Toastmasters and unlock a world of benefits: find your voice, sharpen your public speaking and leadership skills, boost confidence, receive valuable feedback, and expand your network.
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Mt Pleasant Speakers Club: 2nd & 4th Mondays 5:50-7:15 PM. Click Facebook link below!
Anti-fragility = Strength and/or Security:
- Strength: Comes from connection, which comes from sharing vulnerability, sharing honest thoughts about the relationship (or partner), needs/desires, overcoming fears of communicating negative feelings, and anything that could cause straying outside the relationship.
- Security comes from knowing your value (self-esteem & self-confidence). Knowing that if it ended, you'd be okay. Also, not fearing making mistakes, internalizing that if you made mistakes, it'd be okay, internalizing that a relationship is like a battery, which can get drained *AND* charged up 🔋!
- Desire to learn and grow together in similar ways.
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The foundation for love = reciprocated positive feelings between two people who are romantically intimate, and who mutually desire a future with each other, and find each other sufficiently high value.
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Paul's definition of Love (CCC):
1. Caretaking: When you have a genuine desire (not obligated desire) for someone else's health, well-being, happiness, and feeling good as one of your top priorities in life. Also, their happiness contributes to your happiness in a huge way.
2. Companionship: A desire to spend time with someone doing anything and everything.
3. Castle-Building: A desire to build (and the ability to envision) a healthy, positive, and fun future life together.
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What is the purpose of a relationship?
A) To facilitate joy, happiness, or enjoyment of life.
B) To inspire growth in each other, and amplify success in shared areas.
February - RaiseFest
March: Peak Partnership
May/June: Diversified Mortgage Expo
July: Landmark Forum
September: Summit of Greatness
November: Tony Robbins: Unleash The Power Within
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I Prefer to Avoid:
⭐ I Prefer to Eat (The guideline for my preferred style of eating is low-sugar low-carb):
My long-time interest and personal passion project is building the THOW ICWRSO (Tiny Houses on Wheels Intentional Community and Wellness Resort for Self-Empowerment).
This is a community of people who live together (or visit temporarily) with the intention of learning, growing, and focusing on self-development in the company of like-minded individuals. Some attributes of the community:
Events would be real estate and entrepreneurship masterminds, conferences, seminars, wellness retreats, weight loss clinics, paid speakers, and many more! Think: Landmark, Tony Robbins, etc. Almost like an adult camp with the "activity" being self-development, learning, and growth. Social leadership and creation.
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